My heartfelt thanks to Chicago Writers Conference Executive Director Mare Swallow for mentioning my most recent book, Consciously Created Cinema, during the program's opening presentation! "CCC" was one of two titles she mentioned as having been a product that came about as a direct result of the informative presentations given at last year's conference. What a wonderful and unexpected treat to wake up to on a Saturday morning! Thanks, Mare!
Saturday, October 25, 2014
Friday, October 24, 2014
‘Whiplash’ seeks to distinguish drive from obsession
“Whiplash” (2014). Cast: Miles Teller, J.K. Simmons, Paul Reiser, Melissa Benoist, Nate Lang, Austin Stowell, Damon Gupton, April Grace. Director: Damien Chazelle. Screenplay: Damien Chazelle. Web site. Trailer.
When do we cross the line between ambition and fixation? That can be a difficult call, especially for those of us who are decidedly motivated to achieve highly prized aspirations. It’s a struggle rife with challenges, most notably finding out what’s behind those aims. Those dicey issues are among the key considerations that get played out with gripping intensity in the compelling new drama, “Whiplash.”
Jazz drummer Andrew Neiman (Miles Teller) wants to be one of the greats. As a freshman at a fictional New York conservatory, Andrew may be just starting out, but he envisions himself one day joining the ranks of drumming legends like Buddy Rich (1917-1987). And the opportunity to scale those daunting heights comes along surprisingly fast when he captures the attention of Terence Fletcher (J.K. Simmons), leader of the school’s premier studio band, who invites him to join the ensemble. Almost overnight, Andrew seems to be on his way.
But Andrew’s big break comes at a cost. Being a member of Fletcher’s band is far more demanding than he ever imagined. As an unrelenting perfectionist accustomed to winning every competition he enters, Fletcher insists on the same level of performance from his students, refusing to accept mistakes or forgive errors. He views every misstep by his musicians as an intolerable act of sabotage. So anyone who wants to play in this elite ensemble must endure the conductor’s intimidating behavior. His taskmaster ways include regular onslaughts of demeaning insults, manipulative mind games, verbal tirades and sometimes even physical abuse.
Fletcher is especially hard on Andrew, who initially feels he’s being unfairly singled out. But, when the new kid buckles down and makes the effort to live up to his potential, he also sees his performance duly rewarded. So, despite these highly questionable conditions, he decides to stick to his commitment.
But how far is Andrew prepared to go? He willingly makes sacrifices, such as abandoning a budding romance to a fellow co-ed (Melissa Benoist), to make more time for his music. Still, no matter what Andrew does, his efforts never seem to be enough. Despite Andrew’s accomplishments, Fletcher continually ups the ante on him, placing ever-greater demands on his time, talent, patience and perseverance. What’s more, Fletcher’s ploys are so scurrilous at times that they even jeopardize Andrew’s relationships with his fellow band mates (Nate Lang, Austin Stowell). And, when some particularly shocking revelations about the conductor surface, Andrew must make some difficult choices about his future. He must truthfully ask himself, “How badly do I want to achieve my goal?” But, even more importantly, he must also decide, “Can I live with my actions?”
As both Andrew and Fletcher seek to realize their goals, they must each address a key concern – the difference between being driven and being obsessed. There’s a fine line between the two, but the primary determiner is the matter of intent – and the conscious creation beliefs that underlie it, because those notions will ultimately determine how matters unfold and what experiences materialize.
For both student and teacher, it’s fairly obvious what they want to achieve. As noted previously, Andrew is eager to become one of the greats, and Fletcher undeniably wants to be the best at his craft. But, in attaining those goals, there’s the even greater question of how.
In becoming experts at what they do, Andrew and Fletcher must transcend themselves, exceeding their expectations and pushing their perceived limits of their capabilities. Andrew, as a neophyte performer, has a vague idea of what that entails, but his lack of experience – both in practical terms as a professional drummer and metaphysically as one who manifests his destiny – keeps him from seeing exactly what that takes. By contrast, Fletcher, as a seasoned and successful professional, has a much better idea of what’s required, but reaching the pinnacle of his aspirations involves getting the most out of his musicians (particularly his star performers), an achievement that he feels has always eluded him. Attaining those transcendent goals is possible, but it may call for measures neither of them has previously considered, taking steps that go beyond what they’re accustomed to. The question is, though, can they successfully realize their respective goals while remaining true to their intents? Or will they resort to actions and behaviors aimed at fulfilling their objectives at any cost?
To live up to his potential. Andrew obviously needs to be pushed, and attracting a taskmaster into his life can help him achieve that goal (hence Fletcher’s presence in his life). Meanwhile, to fulfill his objective as an expert band leader, Fletcher must have outstanding, impressionable musicians (like Andrew) following his baton. But at what point does challenging, inspired tutelage become an exercise in tyrannical scholarship? When does a receptive student become an unwitting, complicit victim? Indeed, when does focused effort transform into blind ambition?
In circumstances when the ends begin to blur our perceptions of the means, we slip into the practice of un-conscious creation or creation by default, where realizing outcomes overshadows the ways we achieve them. As Andrew and Fletcher proceed with their respective endeavors, they wrestle with this consideration, struggling to find the right balance between drive and obsession and to come up with appropriate beliefs for doing so.
Understanding the motivations behind our goals can help tremendously in assessing our beliefs and intents. For instance, much of Andrew’s drive for success comes in response to the failure of his father (Paul Reiser) to fulfill his objective as a successful writer, an unrealized dream that contributed to his parents’ separation at a young age. At the same time, Fletcher has always wanted for one of his students to be a true jazz virtuoso, one who could deliver performances as memorable as those turned in by the likes of Charlie “Bird” Parker (1920-1955). But, again, in realizing these goals, student and teacher must ask themselves, “How far will I go?” and “What am I willing to do?” Answers to these questions, in turn, will significantly influence what beliefs form in response.
In formulating appropriate beliefs, it’s crucial that we pay attention to our true selves, to operate from a sense of personal integrity. If we try to fudge our efforts at this, or, even worse, if we actively disregard this aspect of our character, we set ourselves up for trouble. Andrew and Fletcher must avoid this pitfall, too, if they hope to achieve their goals – and to spare themselves consequences they’d rather avoid.
“Whiplash” is an intensely captivating story involving subject matter that, at first glance, wouldn’t seem to lend itself to such treatment. The story is made all the more intense by its spirited, upbeat score and its superb film editing. Director Damien Chazelle, a Queer Palm nominee at this year’s Cannes Film Festival, has turned in a fine effort in his first major production, giving moviegoers much to look forward to in his future works.
But what truly makes this picture is its stellar acting. Simmons gives a career performance, one that allows him to finally showcase his considerable (and long-underrated) talent and that stands him in good stead as a strong awards season contender. Teller, meanwhile, finally shows us what he’s capable of, far outshining his previously underwhelming efforts in films like “Rabbit Hole” (2010) and “The Spectacular Now” (2013). The chemistry between these two leads is spot-on authentic, too, making for a captivating character study of two highly charged protagonists.
The drive for success is something many of us truly value, but at what price? Gaining a healthy perspective on this issue, both for our own benefit and that of others, is crucial to achieve this objective without causing undue harm to ourselves or those around us. “Whiplash” draws that question into sharp focus, showing us how to keep its potentially adverse ramifications from snapping back and inflicting harm on us in our pursuit of living up to the potential we’re all capable of.
Copyright © 2014, by Brent Marchant. All rights reserved.
When do we cross the line between ambition and fixation? That can be a difficult call, especially for those of us who are decidedly motivated to achieve highly prized aspirations. It’s a struggle rife with challenges, most notably finding out what’s behind those aims. Those dicey issues are among the key considerations that get played out with gripping intensity in the compelling new drama, “Whiplash.”
Jazz drummer Andrew Neiman (Miles Teller) wants to be one of the greats. As a freshman at a fictional New York conservatory, Andrew may be just starting out, but he envisions himself one day joining the ranks of drumming legends like Buddy Rich (1917-1987). And the opportunity to scale those daunting heights comes along surprisingly fast when he captures the attention of Terence Fletcher (J.K. Simmons), leader of the school’s premier studio band, who invites him to join the ensemble. Almost overnight, Andrew seems to be on his way.
But Andrew’s big break comes at a cost. Being a member of Fletcher’s band is far more demanding than he ever imagined. As an unrelenting perfectionist accustomed to winning every competition he enters, Fletcher insists on the same level of performance from his students, refusing to accept mistakes or forgive errors. He views every misstep by his musicians as an intolerable act of sabotage. So anyone who wants to play in this elite ensemble must endure the conductor’s intimidating behavior. His taskmaster ways include regular onslaughts of demeaning insults, manipulative mind games, verbal tirades and sometimes even physical abuse.
Fletcher is especially hard on Andrew, who initially feels he’s being unfairly singled out. But, when the new kid buckles down and makes the effort to live up to his potential, he also sees his performance duly rewarded. So, despite these highly questionable conditions, he decides to stick to his commitment.
But how far is Andrew prepared to go? He willingly makes sacrifices, such as abandoning a budding romance to a fellow co-ed (Melissa Benoist), to make more time for his music. Still, no matter what Andrew does, his efforts never seem to be enough. Despite Andrew’s accomplishments, Fletcher continually ups the ante on him, placing ever-greater demands on his time, talent, patience and perseverance. What’s more, Fletcher’s ploys are so scurrilous at times that they even jeopardize Andrew’s relationships with his fellow band mates (Nate Lang, Austin Stowell). And, when some particularly shocking revelations about the conductor surface, Andrew must make some difficult choices about his future. He must truthfully ask himself, “How badly do I want to achieve my goal?” But, even more importantly, he must also decide, “Can I live with my actions?”
As both Andrew and Fletcher seek to realize their goals, they must each address a key concern – the difference between being driven and being obsessed. There’s a fine line between the two, but the primary determiner is the matter of intent – and the conscious creation beliefs that underlie it, because those notions will ultimately determine how matters unfold and what experiences materialize.
For both student and teacher, it’s fairly obvious what they want to achieve. As noted previously, Andrew is eager to become one of the greats, and Fletcher undeniably wants to be the best at his craft. But, in attaining those goals, there’s the even greater question of how.
In becoming experts at what they do, Andrew and Fletcher must transcend themselves, exceeding their expectations and pushing their perceived limits of their capabilities. Andrew, as a neophyte performer, has a vague idea of what that entails, but his lack of experience – both in practical terms as a professional drummer and metaphysically as one who manifests his destiny – keeps him from seeing exactly what that takes. By contrast, Fletcher, as a seasoned and successful professional, has a much better idea of what’s required, but reaching the pinnacle of his aspirations involves getting the most out of his musicians (particularly his star performers), an achievement that he feels has always eluded him. Attaining those transcendent goals is possible, but it may call for measures neither of them has previously considered, taking steps that go beyond what they’re accustomed to. The question is, though, can they successfully realize their respective goals while remaining true to their intents? Or will they resort to actions and behaviors aimed at fulfilling their objectives at any cost?
To live up to his potential. Andrew obviously needs to be pushed, and attracting a taskmaster into his life can help him achieve that goal (hence Fletcher’s presence in his life). Meanwhile, to fulfill his objective as an expert band leader, Fletcher must have outstanding, impressionable musicians (like Andrew) following his baton. But at what point does challenging, inspired tutelage become an exercise in tyrannical scholarship? When does a receptive student become an unwitting, complicit victim? Indeed, when does focused effort transform into blind ambition?
In circumstances when the ends begin to blur our perceptions of the means, we slip into the practice of un-conscious creation or creation by default, where realizing outcomes overshadows the ways we achieve them. As Andrew and Fletcher proceed with their respective endeavors, they wrestle with this consideration, struggling to find the right balance between drive and obsession and to come up with appropriate beliefs for doing so.
Understanding the motivations behind our goals can help tremendously in assessing our beliefs and intents. For instance, much of Andrew’s drive for success comes in response to the failure of his father (Paul Reiser) to fulfill his objective as a successful writer, an unrealized dream that contributed to his parents’ separation at a young age. At the same time, Fletcher has always wanted for one of his students to be a true jazz virtuoso, one who could deliver performances as memorable as those turned in by the likes of Charlie “Bird” Parker (1920-1955). But, again, in realizing these goals, student and teacher must ask themselves, “How far will I go?” and “What am I willing to do?” Answers to these questions, in turn, will significantly influence what beliefs form in response.
In formulating appropriate beliefs, it’s crucial that we pay attention to our true selves, to operate from a sense of personal integrity. If we try to fudge our efforts at this, or, even worse, if we actively disregard this aspect of our character, we set ourselves up for trouble. Andrew and Fletcher must avoid this pitfall, too, if they hope to achieve their goals – and to spare themselves consequences they’d rather avoid.
“Whiplash” is an intensely captivating story involving subject matter that, at first glance, wouldn’t seem to lend itself to such treatment. The story is made all the more intense by its spirited, upbeat score and its superb film editing. Director Damien Chazelle, a Queer Palm nominee at this year’s Cannes Film Festival, has turned in a fine effort in his first major production, giving moviegoers much to look forward to in his future works.
But what truly makes this picture is its stellar acting. Simmons gives a career performance, one that allows him to finally showcase his considerable (and long-underrated) talent and that stands him in good stead as a strong awards season contender. Teller, meanwhile, finally shows us what he’s capable of, far outshining his previously underwhelming efforts in films like “Rabbit Hole” (2010) and “The Spectacular Now” (2013). The chemistry between these two leads is spot-on authentic, too, making for a captivating character study of two highly charged protagonists.
The drive for success is something many of us truly value, but at what price? Gaining a healthy perspective on this issue, both for our own benefit and that of others, is crucial to achieve this objective without causing undue harm to ourselves or those around us. “Whiplash” draws that question into sharp focus, showing us how to keep its potentially adverse ramifications from snapping back and inflicting harm on us in our pursuit of living up to the potential we’re all capable of.
Copyright © 2014, by Brent Marchant. All rights reserved.
Friday, October 17, 2014
‘Pride’ encourages us to honor our creations – and ourselves
“Pride” (2014), Cast: Ben Schnetzer, Bill Nighy, Imelda Staunton, Joseph Gilgun, George MacKay, Andrew Scott, Dominic West, Faye Marsay, Paddy Considine, Jessica Gunning, Menna Trussler, Lisa Palfrey, Liz White, Nia Gwynne, Russell Tovey, Rodri Meilir, Karina Fernandez, Jessie Cave, Jack Baggs, Kyle Rees, Freddie Fox. Director: Matthew Warchus. Screenplay: Stephen Beresford. Web site. Trailer.
Are we truly pleased with the lives we lead? Or do we let self-doubt, the expectations of others or the pressures of authority figures get in the way? How we answer those questions depends on how much we value our efforts – and ourselves – in the creation of our realities, no matter who we are or where we come from. These are among the issues brought to light in the new, fact-based inspirational comedy, “Pride.”
In 1984, the United Kingdom was embroiled in a nasty labor dispute in which striking coal miners locked heads with the Conservative Party government of Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher (1925-2013). With both sides at loggerheads with one another, the strike wore on for months, circumstances that took quite an economic toll on the miners. And, with Thatcher intractably clinging to her uncompromising stance, the PM effectively sought to starve the laborers into submission.
But, then, along came an unexpected ally.
At London’s Gay Pride Parade in June 1984, a new community organization was formed to provide assistance to the strikers, Lesbians and Gays Support the Miners. Organized by activist Mark Ashton (Ben Schnetzer) and a handful of colleagues (Joseph Gilgun, George MacKay, Dominic West, Faye Marsay, Andrew Scott, Freddie Fox), the group sought to raise funds for – and awareness of the plight facing – families affected by the work stoppage. The thinking behind this unconventional campaign was for one persecuted community to offer aid to another that also suffered the heavy-handed oppression of officialdom, a means by which to build bridges between different, but similarly situated segments of society.
Ashton’s efforts were not without hurdles, however. Many members of the gay community – especially those who relocated to London from rural areas of the U.K. – were reluctant to support the people they left behind, the close-minded, homophobic attitudes prevalent among them having left a bitter taste in the transplants’ mouths. And, to complicate matters further, the strikers’ parent organization, the National Union of Mineworkers, turned down LGSM’s offers of assistance (despite its success in raising substantial amounts of cash), fearing that public perceptions might be tainted by its association with an openly gay group. Discouragement set in. But, before long, a new strategy was implemented that would change everything.
Rather than attempting to change the minds of the NUM bureaucracy, Ashton and company decided to instead focus their efforts on a single miners’ lodge, the striking workers from the small town of Onllwyn in the Dulais Valley of southern Wales. After an initial meeting with the local miners’ representative, Dai Donovan (Paddy Considine), the LGSM contingent set off for the Welsh countryside, having no idea what would await them.
At first, relations between the two factions were quite tense. With many of the townsfolk having never met anyone from the gay community before (at least knowingly), the locals were tentative in approaching the new arrivals. Many were unfamiliar with the ways of a big city subculture. And others, like one of the women’s auxiliary board members (Lisa Palfrey), were outright hostile. However, thanks to Dai’s enthusiastic endorsement of his new colleagues, the LGSM delegation gradually began winning over allies, including the lodge’s recording secretary (Bill Nighy), a number of the miners (Rodri Meilir, Kyle Rees) and several women’s auxiliary board members (Imelda Staunton, Jessica Gunning, Menna Trussler). A new bond was thus forged. But the developments that emerged from that unlikely alliance were far more sweeping than what anyone expected. The results would stun everyone – and have wide-ranging implications that spread across the nation.
It’s probably pretty safe to say that, in the days before the alliance’s formation, almost no one could have envisioned the existence of a coalition between Welsh coal miners and London’s gay community, let alone anything that these unlikely collaborators would eventually accomplish. However, Mark believed in that possibility, which, thanks to the conscious creation process, is what made it happen. The power of Ashton’s beliefs, combined with those of his cohorts and his divine creative partner, brought into being what most people likely couldn’t have foreseen. And the success of that seemingly improbable manifestation was so potent that it ultimately led to both an end to the strike and the birth of legally protected civil rights for members of the U.K.’s gay community.
Some beliefs.
For those who actively practice conscious creation, however, these results really shouldn’t come as a surprise. The beliefs that fostered these outcomes are, at their core, indicative of what it takes to make the process work, no matter what materialization is being sought. The scope of what was created here may be of a magnitude greater than what many of us typically would envision, but, at bottom, these outcomes have roots that arise from the same basic source that we use in conceiving and realizing any sought-after manifestation – our beliefs.
Perhaps the difference between this situation and most others is that the miners and the LGSM members had the vision to employ a broader view, one that draws upon several additional components of the conscious creation process. For instance, the creators at work here were willing to think outside the box, to draw upon beliefs that overcame the limitations that had been allowed to hold sway for so long. Exceeding those self-imposed barriers may take some expansion of one’s thinking, but, as the outcomes illustrate, the effort was clearly well worth it.
One of the keys to success in overcoming limited beliefs is to learn how to turn “negatives” into positives. If we indeed create everything that appears in our reality, then that would also include those elements we might see as setbacks or impediments. But their appearance in our existence, no matter how disappointing they may be, must be intended to serve some particular purpose, one destined to lead us to some as-yet-unforeseen favorable outcome; otherwise, we wouldn’t have manifested these phenomena in the first place.
The trick here is to recognize these circumstances and to figure out how to transform them. This is akin to the idea of making lemonade from life’s proverbial lemons. The LGSM members do this routinely in the film, such as when their meeting place – a London gay bookstore – is attacked by rock-throwing hooligans who unabashedly call them perverts, a term used by conservative members of the press to discredit them (and the miners) when word of their alliance is made public. However, rather than cower in fear and embarrassment, Mark encourages his peers to embrace the disparagement, even going so far as to use the term in the name of a fundraiser for the miners called “Pits and Perverts,” a name alluding to both factions of the coalition. The event, which featured a performance by the iconic gay band Bronski Beat, would prove to be a resounding success.
Part of the reason why such events and initiatives were so successful lies with the characters’ awareness of our inherent connectedness. In tapping into that component of the process, it helps immensely if we’re aware of our innate propensity for cooperation, a quality that some behavioral researchers have found is actually part of our intrinsic nature (as noted in the excellent Tom Shadyac documentary, “I Am” (2010)). By drawing upon cooperation in favor of competition, we significantly increase the likelihood of not only materializing what we seek, but also of exceeding our expectations, sometimes much more so than we could have imagined.
Mark is particularly aware of the importance of this. He discusses this notion with Dai in one especially poignant scene in which he explains why he’s brought the miners and the gay community together. Having grown up in Northern Ireland during the days of its internal strife, Mark said that no one spoke to one another during those violent times, creating an artificially imposed sense of separation that was difficult to overcome. He then added that he didn’t want to see the same happen to his newly adopted community in its relations with other parts of society (hence his plan for the alliance). In turn, Dai explained that the mining community had a long-established tradition of partners helping one another in times of need, a principle symbolized by a simple handshake. If one party benefits from another’s benevolence, Dai said, it’s incumbent upon the recipient of such magnanimity to return the favor when the need arises. And, as this film’s narrative plays out, it’s obvious these principles are at work in both communities in many ways, thanks to the beliefs driving their respective co-created manifestations.
Sometimes, however, success in this regard requires us to make others aware of our connectedness, especially if they can’t see it for themselves. This can be fostered by pointing out the relevance behind the connections, particularly when they may not be obvious. For instance, Mark is asked at one point why the gay community should support the miners, given that the nexus between these two disparate communities may not be apparent at first glance. Mark couches his response in practical terms to shine a light on the relevance of the innate connection between these groups: Miners, he says, produce coal, which is used to generate the electricity needed to power the clubs that members of the gay community attend so that they can dance to the music of Bananarama all night long. (Connection clarified.)
In taking a broader view like this, our inherent connectedness to everything in our reality thus becomes clear. Even elements that seem unrelated and far removed from one another are suddenly seen in a new light. Given that, we have an opportunity to gain a new perspective on our existence and everything in it. We might even come to see how its totality exceeds the sum of its parts, an insight that makes it possible for us to attain an entirely new appreciation for the world we create and experience.
With that new awareness, we also have an opportunity to value what we manifest. Of course, to get the most out of the experience, we’d be wise to do so with a sense of integrity, to materialize the reality we seek from a standpoint of truth and honesty. And, if we succeed at this, it just may be possible to take a cue from the film’s title and truly take pride in what we ultimately create, no matter what segment of society we come from.
“Pride” is an absolute knockout – well written, beautifully filmed and nicely paced – and the film delivers its message without ever becoming preachy, heavy-handed or schmaltzy. Its performances are terrific across the board, with especially fine portrayals turned in by Schnetzer, West, Staunton, Gunning and Nighy. The picture also does an excellent job of capturing the look and feel of the early ΚΌ80s, particularly in its depiction of the era’s changing attitudes toward such gay community issues as coming out, social tolerance and the emerging AIDS crisis, as well as public perceptions of the organized labor movement.
The film was released without much fanfare, and it’s currently playing in somewhat limited release (primarily at theaters specializing in independent cinema), so finding it may take some effort. However, “Pride” is definitely worth the search, as it’s one of the best movies released so far this year. For its efforts, the picture won the Queer Palm award at this year’s Cannes Film Festival.
I truly appreciate films that inspire as this one does. As a member of the gay community, it would be easy to say that I like this film just for its positive portrayal of my tribe, but that would be shortchanging everything else this picture has to offer. It stirs in so many ways, regardless of who we are and how we identify ourselves, engendering an uplifting sense of fulfillment. Indeed, it’s an enlightening, inspiring movie whose message we would all be wise to heed. And, if we do, that’s something in which we can all take pride.
Copyright © 2014, by Brent Marchant. All rights reserved.
Are we truly pleased with the lives we lead? Or do we let self-doubt, the expectations of others or the pressures of authority figures get in the way? How we answer those questions depends on how much we value our efforts – and ourselves – in the creation of our realities, no matter who we are or where we come from. These are among the issues brought to light in the new, fact-based inspirational comedy, “Pride.”
In 1984, the United Kingdom was embroiled in a nasty labor dispute in which striking coal miners locked heads with the Conservative Party government of Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher (1925-2013). With both sides at loggerheads with one another, the strike wore on for months, circumstances that took quite an economic toll on the miners. And, with Thatcher intractably clinging to her uncompromising stance, the PM effectively sought to starve the laborers into submission.
But, then, along came an unexpected ally.
At London’s Gay Pride Parade in June 1984, a new community organization was formed to provide assistance to the strikers, Lesbians and Gays Support the Miners. Organized by activist Mark Ashton (Ben Schnetzer) and a handful of colleagues (Joseph Gilgun, George MacKay, Dominic West, Faye Marsay, Andrew Scott, Freddie Fox), the group sought to raise funds for – and awareness of the plight facing – families affected by the work stoppage. The thinking behind this unconventional campaign was for one persecuted community to offer aid to another that also suffered the heavy-handed oppression of officialdom, a means by which to build bridges between different, but similarly situated segments of society.
Ashton’s efforts were not without hurdles, however. Many members of the gay community – especially those who relocated to London from rural areas of the U.K. – were reluctant to support the people they left behind, the close-minded, homophobic attitudes prevalent among them having left a bitter taste in the transplants’ mouths. And, to complicate matters further, the strikers’ parent organization, the National Union of Mineworkers, turned down LGSM’s offers of assistance (despite its success in raising substantial amounts of cash), fearing that public perceptions might be tainted by its association with an openly gay group. Discouragement set in. But, before long, a new strategy was implemented that would change everything.
Rather than attempting to change the minds of the NUM bureaucracy, Ashton and company decided to instead focus their efforts on a single miners’ lodge, the striking workers from the small town of Onllwyn in the Dulais Valley of southern Wales. After an initial meeting with the local miners’ representative, Dai Donovan (Paddy Considine), the LGSM contingent set off for the Welsh countryside, having no idea what would await them.
At first, relations between the two factions were quite tense. With many of the townsfolk having never met anyone from the gay community before (at least knowingly), the locals were tentative in approaching the new arrivals. Many were unfamiliar with the ways of a big city subculture. And others, like one of the women’s auxiliary board members (Lisa Palfrey), were outright hostile. However, thanks to Dai’s enthusiastic endorsement of his new colleagues, the LGSM delegation gradually began winning over allies, including the lodge’s recording secretary (Bill Nighy), a number of the miners (Rodri Meilir, Kyle Rees) and several women’s auxiliary board members (Imelda Staunton, Jessica Gunning, Menna Trussler). A new bond was thus forged. But the developments that emerged from that unlikely alliance were far more sweeping than what anyone expected. The results would stun everyone – and have wide-ranging implications that spread across the nation.
It’s probably pretty safe to say that, in the days before the alliance’s formation, almost no one could have envisioned the existence of a coalition between Welsh coal miners and London’s gay community, let alone anything that these unlikely collaborators would eventually accomplish. However, Mark believed in that possibility, which, thanks to the conscious creation process, is what made it happen. The power of Ashton’s beliefs, combined with those of his cohorts and his divine creative partner, brought into being what most people likely couldn’t have foreseen. And the success of that seemingly improbable manifestation was so potent that it ultimately led to both an end to the strike and the birth of legally protected civil rights for members of the U.K.’s gay community.
Some beliefs.
For those who actively practice conscious creation, however, these results really shouldn’t come as a surprise. The beliefs that fostered these outcomes are, at their core, indicative of what it takes to make the process work, no matter what materialization is being sought. The scope of what was created here may be of a magnitude greater than what many of us typically would envision, but, at bottom, these outcomes have roots that arise from the same basic source that we use in conceiving and realizing any sought-after manifestation – our beliefs.
Perhaps the difference between this situation and most others is that the miners and the LGSM members had the vision to employ a broader view, one that draws upon several additional components of the conscious creation process. For instance, the creators at work here were willing to think outside the box, to draw upon beliefs that overcame the limitations that had been allowed to hold sway for so long. Exceeding those self-imposed barriers may take some expansion of one’s thinking, but, as the outcomes illustrate, the effort was clearly well worth it.
One of the keys to success in overcoming limited beliefs is to learn how to turn “negatives” into positives. If we indeed create everything that appears in our reality, then that would also include those elements we might see as setbacks or impediments. But their appearance in our existence, no matter how disappointing they may be, must be intended to serve some particular purpose, one destined to lead us to some as-yet-unforeseen favorable outcome; otherwise, we wouldn’t have manifested these phenomena in the first place.
The trick here is to recognize these circumstances and to figure out how to transform them. This is akin to the idea of making lemonade from life’s proverbial lemons. The LGSM members do this routinely in the film, such as when their meeting place – a London gay bookstore – is attacked by rock-throwing hooligans who unabashedly call them perverts, a term used by conservative members of the press to discredit them (and the miners) when word of their alliance is made public. However, rather than cower in fear and embarrassment, Mark encourages his peers to embrace the disparagement, even going so far as to use the term in the name of a fundraiser for the miners called “Pits and Perverts,” a name alluding to both factions of the coalition. The event, which featured a performance by the iconic gay band Bronski Beat, would prove to be a resounding success.
Part of the reason why such events and initiatives were so successful lies with the characters’ awareness of our inherent connectedness. In tapping into that component of the process, it helps immensely if we’re aware of our innate propensity for cooperation, a quality that some behavioral researchers have found is actually part of our intrinsic nature (as noted in the excellent Tom Shadyac documentary, “I Am” (2010)). By drawing upon cooperation in favor of competition, we significantly increase the likelihood of not only materializing what we seek, but also of exceeding our expectations, sometimes much more so than we could have imagined.
Mark is particularly aware of the importance of this. He discusses this notion with Dai in one especially poignant scene in which he explains why he’s brought the miners and the gay community together. Having grown up in Northern Ireland during the days of its internal strife, Mark said that no one spoke to one another during those violent times, creating an artificially imposed sense of separation that was difficult to overcome. He then added that he didn’t want to see the same happen to his newly adopted community in its relations with other parts of society (hence his plan for the alliance). In turn, Dai explained that the mining community had a long-established tradition of partners helping one another in times of need, a principle symbolized by a simple handshake. If one party benefits from another’s benevolence, Dai said, it’s incumbent upon the recipient of such magnanimity to return the favor when the need arises. And, as this film’s narrative plays out, it’s obvious these principles are at work in both communities in many ways, thanks to the beliefs driving their respective co-created manifestations.
Sometimes, however, success in this regard requires us to make others aware of our connectedness, especially if they can’t see it for themselves. This can be fostered by pointing out the relevance behind the connections, particularly when they may not be obvious. For instance, Mark is asked at one point why the gay community should support the miners, given that the nexus between these two disparate communities may not be apparent at first glance. Mark couches his response in practical terms to shine a light on the relevance of the innate connection between these groups: Miners, he says, produce coal, which is used to generate the electricity needed to power the clubs that members of the gay community attend so that they can dance to the music of Bananarama all night long. (Connection clarified.)
In taking a broader view like this, our inherent connectedness to everything in our reality thus becomes clear. Even elements that seem unrelated and far removed from one another are suddenly seen in a new light. Given that, we have an opportunity to gain a new perspective on our existence and everything in it. We might even come to see how its totality exceeds the sum of its parts, an insight that makes it possible for us to attain an entirely new appreciation for the world we create and experience.
With that new awareness, we also have an opportunity to value what we manifest. Of course, to get the most out of the experience, we’d be wise to do so with a sense of integrity, to materialize the reality we seek from a standpoint of truth and honesty. And, if we succeed at this, it just may be possible to take a cue from the film’s title and truly take pride in what we ultimately create, no matter what segment of society we come from.
“Pride” is an absolute knockout – well written, beautifully filmed and nicely paced – and the film delivers its message without ever becoming preachy, heavy-handed or schmaltzy. Its performances are terrific across the board, with especially fine portrayals turned in by Schnetzer, West, Staunton, Gunning and Nighy. The picture also does an excellent job of capturing the look and feel of the early ΚΌ80s, particularly in its depiction of the era’s changing attitudes toward such gay community issues as coming out, social tolerance and the emerging AIDS crisis, as well as public perceptions of the organized labor movement.
The film was released without much fanfare, and it’s currently playing in somewhat limited release (primarily at theaters specializing in independent cinema), so finding it may take some effort. However, “Pride” is definitely worth the search, as it’s one of the best movies released so far this year. For its efforts, the picture won the Queer Palm award at this year’s Cannes Film Festival.
I truly appreciate films that inspire as this one does. As a member of the gay community, it would be easy to say that I like this film just for its positive portrayal of my tribe, but that would be shortchanging everything else this picture has to offer. It stirs in so many ways, regardless of who we are and how we identify ourselves, engendering an uplifting sense of fulfillment. Indeed, it’s an enlightening, inspiring movie whose message we would all be wise to heed. And, if we do, that’s something in which we can all take pride.
Copyright © 2014, by Brent Marchant. All rights reserved.
Tuesday, September 30, 2014
Join Me for Some 'Full Power Living'
Please tune in this Thursday, October 2 at 12 pm Eastern, when I'll be a guest on the "Full Power Living" radio show with host Ilene Dillon. Tune in for a lively conversation about conscious creation in the movies and my writings about the subject. The broadcast is available by clicking here. And, for further information about the show, visit the program's home page by clicking here.
Friday, September 26, 2014
‘Skeleton Twins’ charts the path to personal happiness
“The Skeleton Twins” (2014). Cast: Kristen Wiig, Bill Hader, Joanna Gleason, Luke Wilson, Ty Burrell, Boyd Holbrook, Sydney Lucas, Eddie Schweighart. Director: Craig Johnson. Screenplay: Mark Heyman and Craig Johnson. Web site. Trailer.
When life doesn’t work out as hoped for, disappointment is sure to set in. But, when that disappointment gets to be more than we can bear, it can easily turn into despair. How we respond to those circumstances, however, is what ultimately matters most, as a pair of confused siblings discover for themselves in the quirky new comedy-drama, “The Skeleton Twins.”
What choices do we have when we believe our lives suck and we can’t fathom why? That’s a question a disillusioned brother and sister have been asking themselves for years. And, with no suitable answers readily forthcoming, they’re about to take drastic action to address their personal dissatisfaction.
For Milo Dean (Bill Hader), a single gay man living in Los Angeles who works as a waiter while struggling to build an acting career, life is tedious, boring and unfulfilling, and he’s sick of it. His sister Maggie (Kristen Wiig), a married dental hygienist living in New York’s Hudson Valley where she and her brother grew up, feels trapped by life’s stifling mediocrity and perpetually takes classes in various diversions, like scuba diving, in hopes that they’ll provide her with some kind of inspirational spark. Both of them clearly have trouble coping with their situations. But that’s all about to change.
When a medical emergency reunites Milo and Maggie after a protracted estrangement, they tentatively renew their connection. It’s not that they dislike one another; in fact, they had been quite close while growing up, as seen in several flashbacks to their younger selves (Sydney Lucas, Eddie Schweighart). They just drifted apart over time, especially when their growing discontent with life in general led each of them to let their most significant ties deteriorate. This was particularly true in the wake of their father’s unexplained suicide when they were teens, an event that left an indelible mark on both of them.
With their bond renewed, Milo and Maggie discover they still enjoy one another’s company, taking comfort in the mutual support their relationship affords. Milo even decides to avail himself of Maggie’s invitation to come stay with her and her husband, Lance (Luke Wilson), while he recuperates. And so, with a mixture of trepidation and hopefulness, Milo joins his sister in a return to their roots. But, once reunited, the siblings quickly find that they still must contend with their personal anguish. However, unlike before, at least they now have each other to lean on as they sort out their feelings and seek resolution.
So why are Milo and Maggie so distraught? That’s a good question, one that even they don’t seem entirely clear about. There are hints, to be sure, such as their father’s aforementioned suicide. Then there’s their conflicted feelings toward their inattentive mother, Judy (Joanna Gleason), a flighty free spirit who’s typically more interested in the latest New Age fad than in her children’s well-being. Milo also wrestles with unresolved feelings about a failed romance with an old flame, Rich (Ty Burrell), while Maggie seeks to understand her inexplicable restlessness toward Lance, a genuinely nice guy whose perpetually upbeat, always-considerate attitude quietly drives her crazy.
But, with the exception of their dad’s death, is there anything here that’s really so tragic? Most of us would probably say “No.” However, it’s unlikely that Milo and Maggie would concur with that assessment, primarily because that’s the nature of their prevailing outlook, one based on what they believe. And what they believe, of course, is what generates the reality they experience, a fundamental principle that governs the functioning of the conscious creation process. Moreover, the longer they buy into those beliefs, the more entrenched those notions – and their existence – become.
Thus, if Milo and Maggie wish to understand the nature of their circumstances, they should look to themselves first. If their beliefs create their reality, and their beliefs are based on the premise that life is awful, it doesn’t take much to figure out what kind of existence they’ll manifest for themselves.
Most of us would probably find that prospect depressing. However, given that we always have access to an infinite range of beliefs (and, by extension, an infinite range of possibilities capable of materializing from them), we’re not locked into the infinite perpetuation of those conditions. Change is indeed possible. But it begins with us and the beliefs we hold, and, as long as we’re willing to adjust our thinking, alterations to our circumstances are attainable. Failing that, though, we’re destined to stay stuck in place, and that’s a realization Milo and Maggie must come to if they ever hope to alleviate their anxiety – and make a fresh start.
In examining our beliefs (and, consequently, what we manifest from them), it’s imperative that we take responsibility for them. That can be challenging, especially if we discover we dislike what we believe (and, hence, what we create). It may be highly tempting to play the victim under those circumstances, to seek to lay blame elsewhere. But, if we buy into the concept of conscious creation, then we must also accept that we create our reality in its totality, for better or worse.
Coming to terms with that can be problematic, especially if we find out we’ve embraced troublesome (and potentially damaging) beliefs, such as those associated with things like self-sabotage. We might not want to acknowledge their existence, perhaps even going so far as to deny them outright. This is something the siblings would be wise to ponder.
For instance, Maggie has married someone who genuinely adores her, but she often sees him as an annoying, squeaky clean geek. Rather than reciprocate the commitment and devotion Lance shows her, she continually engages in behavior destined to undermine the loving relationship she’s created, such as ridiculing him behind his back and even pursuing dalliances with other men, like her scuba diving instructor, Billy (Boyd Holbrook). Likewise, as a single man, Milo has the freedom to look for love with anyone he wants. Yet, rather than exercise that option, he instead wallows in the overly idealized memories of his involvement with Rich, an unhealthy relationship that was assured to fail from the outset.
If the fallout from such circumstances upsets Maggie and Milo, then they must look to themselves to rectify matters, and the only way they’ll be able to change their lot is to determine why they hold the beliefs that materialized those conditions in the first place. This involves cutting through their personal belief clutter, taking themselves down to the bare bones level of their respective perspectives – like that of a skeleton – to see what thoughts and intents lurk in their consciousness, no matter what they may be. Such determinations are essential if we hope to rewrite the beliefs we put forth to create anew.
Given the overall state of Milo and Maggie’s lives, which many of us may see as reasonably pleasant, some viewers might look upon the siblings as a pair of whiny brats trapped in trumped-up dramas of their own making. And, logically speaking, that assessment would indeed have some merit. Nevertheless, as anyone who genuinely understands conscious creation knows, our beliefs don’t know logic; they simply exist and function to manifest the reality we experience (often persisting rather stubbornly in doing so, too). This is not to give Milo and Maggie an out for the nature of their creations; it’s simply meant to show how they arrived where they are in their lives – and why implementing changes can be challenging.
Still, if looking to ourselves is the key to rewriting our beliefs (especially those we dislike), why don’t we do this more readily when the need arises? While circumstances vary from individual to individual, the most likely culprit is fear. By being afraid (i.e., unwilling) to look further afield from what we already know, we stay locked in place, regardless of whether or not the creations that spring forth from those manifesting beliefs serve us. In many instances, we can alleviate this issue by working on developing the qualities that help us better understand our intents, such as our intuition. But, by failing to take responsibility for this (as Milo and Maggie do – and apparently have for quite a long time), we keep ourselves from finding the true happiness we’re each capable of realizing. We can only hope the siblings discover this for themselves – while they still have the chance.
“The Skeleton Twins” is a wonderful little gem of a movie, with great performances by Wiig, Hader and Gleason. Its well-written, award-winning screenplay is full of wit without ever sounding forced or contrived. At the same time, the script doesn’t hesitate to go for the jugular, either, unhesitatingly exposing the protagonists’ raw emotions at key junctures in the story. What’s more, the film doesn’t spoon-feed viewers, letting the narrative’s events and the picture’s character development speak volumes in making its points. All told, this is a terrific cinematic offering to help fill the void that typically comes between the blockbuster summer movie season and the run-up to the release of awards season contenders.
Working through life’s pains can be a daunting prospect, one in which we often feel alone. But having someone by our side to accompany us through the turmoil certainly helps, if in no other way than to make the journey a little easier and more comforting. In that regard, Milo and Maggie are truly fortunate to have one another. And, if they play their cards right, they just might find the happiness that has long alluded them, a lesson we can all learn from.
Copyright © 2014, by Brent Marchant. All rights reserved.
When life doesn’t work out as hoped for, disappointment is sure to set in. But, when that disappointment gets to be more than we can bear, it can easily turn into despair. How we respond to those circumstances, however, is what ultimately matters most, as a pair of confused siblings discover for themselves in the quirky new comedy-drama, “The Skeleton Twins.”
What choices do we have when we believe our lives suck and we can’t fathom why? That’s a question a disillusioned brother and sister have been asking themselves for years. And, with no suitable answers readily forthcoming, they’re about to take drastic action to address their personal dissatisfaction.
For Milo Dean (Bill Hader), a single gay man living in Los Angeles who works as a waiter while struggling to build an acting career, life is tedious, boring and unfulfilling, and he’s sick of it. His sister Maggie (Kristen Wiig), a married dental hygienist living in New York’s Hudson Valley where she and her brother grew up, feels trapped by life’s stifling mediocrity and perpetually takes classes in various diversions, like scuba diving, in hopes that they’ll provide her with some kind of inspirational spark. Both of them clearly have trouble coping with their situations. But that’s all about to change.
When a medical emergency reunites Milo and Maggie after a protracted estrangement, they tentatively renew their connection. It’s not that they dislike one another; in fact, they had been quite close while growing up, as seen in several flashbacks to their younger selves (Sydney Lucas, Eddie Schweighart). They just drifted apart over time, especially when their growing discontent with life in general led each of them to let their most significant ties deteriorate. This was particularly true in the wake of their father’s unexplained suicide when they were teens, an event that left an indelible mark on both of them.
With their bond renewed, Milo and Maggie discover they still enjoy one another’s company, taking comfort in the mutual support their relationship affords. Milo even decides to avail himself of Maggie’s invitation to come stay with her and her husband, Lance (Luke Wilson), while he recuperates. And so, with a mixture of trepidation and hopefulness, Milo joins his sister in a return to their roots. But, once reunited, the siblings quickly find that they still must contend with their personal anguish. However, unlike before, at least they now have each other to lean on as they sort out their feelings and seek resolution.
So why are Milo and Maggie so distraught? That’s a good question, one that even they don’t seem entirely clear about. There are hints, to be sure, such as their father’s aforementioned suicide. Then there’s their conflicted feelings toward their inattentive mother, Judy (Joanna Gleason), a flighty free spirit who’s typically more interested in the latest New Age fad than in her children’s well-being. Milo also wrestles with unresolved feelings about a failed romance with an old flame, Rich (Ty Burrell), while Maggie seeks to understand her inexplicable restlessness toward Lance, a genuinely nice guy whose perpetually upbeat, always-considerate attitude quietly drives her crazy.
But, with the exception of their dad’s death, is there anything here that’s really so tragic? Most of us would probably say “No.” However, it’s unlikely that Milo and Maggie would concur with that assessment, primarily because that’s the nature of their prevailing outlook, one based on what they believe. And what they believe, of course, is what generates the reality they experience, a fundamental principle that governs the functioning of the conscious creation process. Moreover, the longer they buy into those beliefs, the more entrenched those notions – and their existence – become.
Thus, if Milo and Maggie wish to understand the nature of their circumstances, they should look to themselves first. If their beliefs create their reality, and their beliefs are based on the premise that life is awful, it doesn’t take much to figure out what kind of existence they’ll manifest for themselves.
Most of us would probably find that prospect depressing. However, given that we always have access to an infinite range of beliefs (and, by extension, an infinite range of possibilities capable of materializing from them), we’re not locked into the infinite perpetuation of those conditions. Change is indeed possible. But it begins with us and the beliefs we hold, and, as long as we’re willing to adjust our thinking, alterations to our circumstances are attainable. Failing that, though, we’re destined to stay stuck in place, and that’s a realization Milo and Maggie must come to if they ever hope to alleviate their anxiety – and make a fresh start.
In examining our beliefs (and, consequently, what we manifest from them), it’s imperative that we take responsibility for them. That can be challenging, especially if we discover we dislike what we believe (and, hence, what we create). It may be highly tempting to play the victim under those circumstances, to seek to lay blame elsewhere. But, if we buy into the concept of conscious creation, then we must also accept that we create our reality in its totality, for better or worse.
Coming to terms with that can be problematic, especially if we find out we’ve embraced troublesome (and potentially damaging) beliefs, such as those associated with things like self-sabotage. We might not want to acknowledge their existence, perhaps even going so far as to deny them outright. This is something the siblings would be wise to ponder.
For instance, Maggie has married someone who genuinely adores her, but she often sees him as an annoying, squeaky clean geek. Rather than reciprocate the commitment and devotion Lance shows her, she continually engages in behavior destined to undermine the loving relationship she’s created, such as ridiculing him behind his back and even pursuing dalliances with other men, like her scuba diving instructor, Billy (Boyd Holbrook). Likewise, as a single man, Milo has the freedom to look for love with anyone he wants. Yet, rather than exercise that option, he instead wallows in the overly idealized memories of his involvement with Rich, an unhealthy relationship that was assured to fail from the outset.
If the fallout from such circumstances upsets Maggie and Milo, then they must look to themselves to rectify matters, and the only way they’ll be able to change their lot is to determine why they hold the beliefs that materialized those conditions in the first place. This involves cutting through their personal belief clutter, taking themselves down to the bare bones level of their respective perspectives – like that of a skeleton – to see what thoughts and intents lurk in their consciousness, no matter what they may be. Such determinations are essential if we hope to rewrite the beliefs we put forth to create anew.
Given the overall state of Milo and Maggie’s lives, which many of us may see as reasonably pleasant, some viewers might look upon the siblings as a pair of whiny brats trapped in trumped-up dramas of their own making. And, logically speaking, that assessment would indeed have some merit. Nevertheless, as anyone who genuinely understands conscious creation knows, our beliefs don’t know logic; they simply exist and function to manifest the reality we experience (often persisting rather stubbornly in doing so, too). This is not to give Milo and Maggie an out for the nature of their creations; it’s simply meant to show how they arrived where they are in their lives – and why implementing changes can be challenging.
Still, if looking to ourselves is the key to rewriting our beliefs (especially those we dislike), why don’t we do this more readily when the need arises? While circumstances vary from individual to individual, the most likely culprit is fear. By being afraid (i.e., unwilling) to look further afield from what we already know, we stay locked in place, regardless of whether or not the creations that spring forth from those manifesting beliefs serve us. In many instances, we can alleviate this issue by working on developing the qualities that help us better understand our intents, such as our intuition. But, by failing to take responsibility for this (as Milo and Maggie do – and apparently have for quite a long time), we keep ourselves from finding the true happiness we’re each capable of realizing. We can only hope the siblings discover this for themselves – while they still have the chance.
“The Skeleton Twins” is a wonderful little gem of a movie, with great performances by Wiig, Hader and Gleason. Its well-written, award-winning screenplay is full of wit without ever sounding forced or contrived. At the same time, the script doesn’t hesitate to go for the jugular, either, unhesitatingly exposing the protagonists’ raw emotions at key junctures in the story. What’s more, the film doesn’t spoon-feed viewers, letting the narrative’s events and the picture’s character development speak volumes in making its points. All told, this is a terrific cinematic offering to help fill the void that typically comes between the blockbuster summer movie season and the run-up to the release of awards season contenders.
Working through life’s pains can be a daunting prospect, one in which we often feel alone. But having someone by our side to accompany us through the turmoil certainly helps, if in no other way than to make the journey a little easier and more comforting. In that regard, Milo and Maggie are truly fortunate to have one another. And, if they play their cards right, they just might find the happiness that has long alluded them, a lesson we can all learn from.
Copyright © 2014, by Brent Marchant. All rights reserved.
Wednesday, September 24, 2014
It's All About Relationships
Please tune in this Thursday, September 25 at 8 pm Eastern, when I'll be a guest on the VividLife Internet radio show "It's All About Relationships." Join me and host Edie Weinstein for a lively conversation about conscious creation in the movies, especially as it relates to the relationships we have with ourselves. To hear the broadcast, click here.
Monday, September 15, 2014
The Flow of Consciousness
Anyone who’s an artist—regardless of the medium in which one works—knows that getting into the flow of one’s consciousness is essential to successfully create finished works. Tapping into this rich resource of inspiration and knowledge provides access to the makings of all sorts of completed materializations. To find out more, read "The Flow of Consciousness," my latest Smart Women's Empowerment blog, available by clicking here.
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